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On the November 6, 2012 Wealth Psychology Show at Sylvia Global Radio, Emily interviewed author, musician, poet, and luminary, Lenedra Carroll about her experiences over 4 years without having an income, home, or bank accounts.

In the course of our conversation we explored some of Lenedra’s wisdom regarding what it means to be human and spiritual — living fully and passionately from moment to moment.

Lenedra shared how she had to learn to dis-identify with how things had always been done — shifting from being a “mover and shaker” to slowing down and listening to the quiet core of self.

While she closed her bank accounts and cut up her credit cards, she did not simply live off others – she welcomed and received gifts — such as air miles that made it possible to travel to Alaska to see her mother when she was in the hospital — and she also looked at ways to exchange her gifts and talents in return.

She discovered what it was like to flow from a place of peace and trust, and also speaks about that which robs us from being able to live from that place all the time –

1. How the mind questions and worries, wanting to know and have certainty.

2. How others question us and our choices and uncertainty.  Simply not having a particular home caused people to feel uncomfortable, worried, fearful, or intrigued when they’d meet Lenedra.

We explored Lenedra’s definition of “enlightenment” and her approach to spirituality, and what it means to live from true grace.

At the end of the show, we offered the following to our listeners:

Evocative Question: How much do you long for that peace and spiritual experience to be the core of your experience of life?

Inspiring Invitation: What is it you long for? more space? more peace? more joy? more time to be with yourself, with those you love?  We invite you to name it and declare one way you will begin to cultivate even a few moments of it in your life -
perhaps through taking 10 breaths before making an important phone call; perhaps in putting on a favorite, uplifting song to listen to when you are feeling particularly stretched or stressed – using whatever you find helps to bring you back to that quiet center inside.

Useful Tools:
Gratitude/Passion/Pearls Journal — a place to capture your moments of connection, of peace, of joy, of flow… to cultivate you having more of what you long for each and every day.

Sharing Dinner Together — having quality time where you are present with each other has been show to make the biggest positive impact in the lives of your family members.  You may want to have a game that you play as a family that has everyone engaged, such as “High/Low” where everyone shares a high point of their day and a low point and the other members of the family listen.

Book: The Architecture of All Abundance by Lenedra Carroll – where each chapter illustrates ways of incorporating more of what you want at the core of your life to be expressed in every domain of life (health, work, family, money, time…)

 

On Sylvia Global Radio, on Tuesday, Oct. 30th, 2012 Emily has a conversation with Lenedra Carroll, who authored The Architecture of All Abundance and founded the non-profit, “Higher Ground for Humanity”.  Lenedra developed and managed the career of the artist, Jewel, and is also Jewel’s mother.

Together, Emily and Lenedra explore what Lenedra has discovered over the years in the realm of the “Architecture of Health”, with specific attention on the emotions, and also on intuition and how to trust your inner-voice when it comes to your own health and healing.

Take Aways:

  • Evocative Question: What aspect of your physical health needs attention?
  • Inspiring Invitation: “No body, nobody!” Choose a particular time of year to have your annual exam and put it on your recurring calendar: pap, breast exam (mammogram or better), blood panel – and then call your doctor/s and schedule your appointments for 2013.
  • Useful Tools:

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Questions from listeners: call in number: (347) 215-6138

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email questions to: listeners@sylviaglobal.com — enter “Wealth Psychology” in the subject line.

 

Silicon Valley women execs were front and center in the Sunday Styles section of the New York Times on August 5th in an article focused on how “Techies Break a Fashion Taboo.”  According to the article it seems in the San Francisco Bay Area “a growing group of women is bucking convention not only by being women in a male dominated industry, but also by unabashedly embracing fashion.”

 

Savvy designers are designing for women in the tech world because those women are seen as an influential force and an important and growing demographic worth paying attention to – now and in the foreseeable future.  According to one designer, Stacey Bendet Eisner, of Alice and Olivia, women in the tech field “want an element of sophistication to their clothes because they want to be taken seriously.”  Ironically, one chief executive, Ruzwana Bashir, of Peek, a travel start up, was surprised that some people in the Bay Area were distrustful of fashion. “Perhaps they think they’re not taken seriously if they make an effort. In the end, I’d rather wear a nice dress, and if someone is not going to take me seriously, that’s so superficial…You can be this super-successful woman who’s smart and effective but still feminine.”

 

The article highlights the fact that only 5% of executives in high tech are women, and only 11% are tech investors.  Given the low numbers, there can be advantages to bringing attention to yourself via your style. One investor, Theresia Gouw Ranzetta, from Accel Partners, a venture capital firm, explains: “When it’s a sea of young guys in jeans and hoodies, and the V.C.’s are in their khakis and button-down uniform, it’s kind of a benefit to be different.”

 

Magaly Masci, French-born, senior vice president with Morgan Stanley Smith Barney and an international advocate in women’s leadership, is a self-described “fashionista” who loves to dress with class and sophistication in the workplace and having fun with casual attire.  When asked about her impressions of the article, Masci gave her point of view:  “What is truly important is understanding that fashion is another way of expressing yourself and it represents something different for everyone.  As such you should embrace your fashion sense with pride. Whatever your style is, it is yours and women should be encouraged to find their own fashion statement within the workplace, whether it is tech, financial industry, law, accounting or leading a company.”

 

Marissa Mayer, Yahoo’s new chief executive sums up the connection of fashion to technology in a powerful way: “My willingness to talk about [fashion] is because I believe the way we’ll get more people into computer science and ultimately more women into computer science is by making it really clear that you can be yourself and don’t need to give up parts of yourself to succeed.”

 

For more on the power of fashion and great conversations about women and fashion, listen to Sylvia Global’s interview with Randolf Duke on the Beauty of a Woman Inside  AND Sylvia Global’s interview with Keith Holman on how Fashion Instills Confidence.

Jun 122012
 

What if we stopped aligning with a team, with a religion, with a country, with a political party, with a mother against a father when there’s been a divorce?

What if we stopped hating those who are different from us and those who have more or less than us?

What if instead we met each other as human being to human being, honoring that we are all doing the best we can,

and that we all have hopes and dreams and doubts and fears

and

we showed up in the spirit of what’s in our hearts,

instead of what we think we should do based on rules and beliefs and norms?

What would the world be like then?

This simple story touches the heart because it bypasses the norm of what you “should” do in sports – and where the Golden Rule over-rode the typical rule of sports where winning the game matters most. The girls in this story stepped into what it means to truly win in this game of life we’re all playing together.

 

 

I’ve been working with women recently who the outside world would consider to be highly successful, yet they feel unfulfilled and self-doubt riddles their lives.  We work together to look at how they personally define success, as well as what messages they received in their lives related to success have “stuck” and influenced them the most.

My stepmother recently wrote about what has inspired her related to success and I wanted to pass along her research here:

According to B.J. Gallagher,  women want Success, defined as Self-acceptance and self-love; Unlimited happiness and fulfillment; Contribution and service to others; Commitment to relationships; Energy and Enthusiasm for life; Self-determination; and Spiritual growth and Serenity. Success is as much about who you’re being as what you’re doing.  Success is not a destination – it’s the journey.  Such is spoken about life.

How do you define success for yourself? Do you feel successful? What would it take to experience success fully in your heart and mind?

© 2012 Emily Bouchard | 336 Bon Air Center, #145 · Greenbrae, CA 94904 | info@emilybouchard.com